Or should you just kill him on the spot? No seriously, a lot of girls ask themselves this question after a breakup.

Usually they don’t mean to cause any real physical harm, but it is an understandable emotion, because let’s be honest: Guys can be such a terrible pain in the backside.

And if your boyfriend broke up with you, or you broke up with your boyfriend, it doesn’t really make a difference.. It is still you who is left wondering if you should take your ex boyfriend back.

You probably know that you have to be on your guard when your boyfriend broke up with you, and then later wants you back.

In a lot of cases, he is just trying to get you to have sex with him again. You know that, right?

Also, you probably have “that urge” as well. He was your boyfriend for a reason, so there must be some physical attraction between the two of you. Thats why a lot of girls have difficulty resisting an ex boyfriend, and often wonder if they should take him back.

One general advice that most people will give you, is to not get back with an ex boyfriend that cheated on you. I think in most cases that’s very true, although situations vary of course.

Once a cheater, always a cheater? No. But still there is a big chance if your ex boyfriend cheated on you before, he will do it again. So if you are thinking about taking your ex back, make sure that there will be some real change.

When you decide you are going to get back together with your ex boyfriend, you would be smart to read a decent manual on how you can change his behavior. Otherwise the two of you are likely to go straight back to the patterns you were in before, which led to the breakup in the first place. To do things different this time, you need some knowledge of male psychology.

There are some very good, psychological courses out there on how to get an ex boyfriend back, and change the dynamics of the relationship in the process.

Although they are often aimed at girls who have difficulty getting a guy back, they can also hugely benefit girls who can get their ex boyfriend back, but want to learn how to get him back on their own terms.