Dumped your girlfriend? Now you want her back. You will need to act quickly. But you dont want to make the same mistakes that most guys do when they are trying desperately to get their ex-girlfriends back.

If you want to get her back then I bet you’ve been sending her expensive gifts, trying desperately to get her attention and prove something to her about how you feel.

Its a good bet none of this has worked and to be honest these attempts are not new. Your ex-girlfriend needs and wants to have something honest and something more innovative from you.

The girl you have dumped is going to want to get a little revenge and make you jump a few hoops before she will forgive you. Even though she may also want you back just as much as you want her back.

There is no question or doubt, you may seriously have hurt her pride and feelings. And she will act accordingly. It will depend on how badly you want her back which will determine how prepared you will be to accept the consequences.

If she needs you to explain what you did and why you did it, then you better take some time to figure it out in your own head and be sincere when you sit down to explain it to her.

You will probably need to apologize to her and promise this will never happen again. Then make this promise and sincerely mean it.

Maybe you panicked as you saw the relationship deepening and getting more and more serious. It’s a pretty common feature for some guys and to suddenly feel as they are feeling smothered and overwhelmed in a relationship and instead of sitting down with their girlfriends, they panic.

Then you find yourself regretful of dumping her and you are now desperate to get her back and renew your relationship. In this situation you need to talk with your ex-girlfriend and be honest with her about your feelings.

It is necessary to guard against a situation where you are wrong, but that you overreacted. Her punching bag is something you dont want to become. You also dont want to be an emotional vessel on who she can vent her frustrations and anger. Just because your there and she can. But be understanding an apologetic, not a doormat.

Chances are if the two of you still have feelings for each other, you will get her back after you dumped girlfriend, but you have to be clear that you’re happy to try again and not simply reacting to feeling bad about the way you treated her.