Do you ever wonder if you can turn a bootycall into a boyfriend? or have you come across this question yourself from friends, or from forums written by women out there? What exactly does the answer depend on? Would you want to know your chance to make it happen? Well read on, I have written this answer based on consultation with many male friends out there ranging from the stable boyfriend material to the player material. So here we go:

Firstly, it depends on how things were started at the beginning. What I mean is, if the relationship started as a one nighter, followed by the many infrequent night stands, then you are in what is called as the true bootycall relationship. It is a true bootycall in every sense of the word and when you are in this situation, turning him into a boyfriend is unfortunately very hard.

The good news is though, you can figure out what is the chance that it MAY happen very easily. All you need to do is stop being a bootycall to him, and see if he even wonder around the idea that it might be a good idea to take you out on real dates. Of course, it is way easier to be said than done.

So what is it that you are supposed to do now? Well, you can hold back on the intimacy, and try to go out on real dates with this potential suitor. (You don’t have to hold back EVERY time, but some of the times.) If he doesn’t ask you out on real date, ask him! You heard that right, you can ask a man.

And how do you know he’s interested? Hm, I won’t get to too much details here, as common sense should tell you this. Pay attention to his actions instead of his words. Just ignore his excuse and pay attention on whether or not he actually MAKES time to meet you on a real date rather than pretendig to be busy or suggesting “drinks past nine o’clock” instead. Basically, if he’s keen to go out on a real date minus the intimacy, your chance gets higher on turning this bootycall into a boyfriend. Otherwise, don’t worry too much and just move on.

Until now, a lot of women are still under the impression that men are just like women, you know, physical intimacy always have some level of emotional attachment to it (most women anyway). Basically they think men who only wants just a quick bootycall fix will at some point decide that he also wants a relationship (with you). That is very untrue, because men separate bootycall and relationship altogether. Whereas some men may be ready, some men are simply unready and he doesn’t want a relationship as yet.

Sleeping with a woman will not automatically get a man closer to her emotionally. In a man’s mind, he separates physical and emotional intimacy altogether like two different containers. So really, you should be asking a separate question i.e. “Is he EVER interested to be my boyfriend in the first place?